intro questions
- What is your idea of perfect happiness?
- What is your greatest fear?
- What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?
- What is the trait you most deplore in others?
- Which living person do you most admire?
- What is your greatest extravagance?
- What is your current state of mind?
- What do you consider the most overrated virtue?
- On what occasion do you lie?
- What do you most dislike about your appearance?
- Which living person do you most despise?
- What is the quality you most like in a man?
- What is the quality you most like in a woman?
- Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
- What or who is the greatest love of your life?
- When and where were you happiest?
- Which talent would you most like to have?
- If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
- What do you consider your greatest achievement?
- If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be?
- Where would you most like to live?
- What is your most treasured possession?
- What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?
- What is your favorite occupation?
- What is your most marked characteristic?
- What do you most value in your friends?
- Who are your favorite writers?
- Who is your hero of fiction?
- Which historical figure do you most identify with?
- Who are your heroes in real life?
- What are your favorite names?
- What is it that you most dislike?
- What is your greatest regret?
- How would you like to die?
- What is your motto?
- Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
- Would you like to be famous? In what way?
- Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
- What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
- When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
- If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
- Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
- For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
- If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
- Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
- If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
- If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
- Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
- What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
- What do you value most in a friendship?
- What is your most treasured memory?
- What is your most terrible memory?
- If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
- What does friendship mean to you?
- What roles do love and affection play in your life?
- What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
- When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
- Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
- Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
- If you didn’t have to sleep, what would you do with the extra time?
- What’s your favorite piece of clothing you own / owned?
- What hobby would you get into if time and money weren’t an issue?
- What would your perfect room look like?
- What fictional place would you most like to go?
- What job would you be terrible at?
- When was the last time you climbed a tree?
- If you could turn any activity into an Olympic sport, what would you have a good chance at winning medal for?
- What is the most annoying habit that other people have?
- What job do you think you’d be really good at?
- What skill would you like to master?
- What would be the most amazing adventure to go on?
- If you had unlimited funds to build a house that you would live in for the rest of your life, what would the finished house be like?
- What’s your favorite drink?
- What state or country do you never want to go back to?
- What songs have you completely memorized?
- What game or movie universe would you most like to live in?
- What do you consider to be your best find?
- Are you usually early or late?
- What pets did you have while you were growing up?
- When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?
- What takes up too much of your time?
- What do you wish you knew more about?
- What would be your first question after waking up from being cryogenically frozen for 100 years?
- What are some small things that make your day better?
- Who has impressed you most with what they’ve accomplished?
- What age do you wish you could permanently be?
- What TV show or movie do you refuse to watch?
- What would be your ideal way to spend the weekend?
- What is something that is considered a luxury, but you don’t think you could live without?
- What’s your claim to fame?
- What’s something you like to do the old-fashioned way?
- What’s your favorite genre of book or movie?
- How often do you people watch?
- What have you only recently formed an opinion about?
- What’s the best single day on the calendar?
- What are you interested in that most people haven’t heard of?
- How do you relax after a hard day of work?
- What was the best book or series that you’ve ever read?
- What’s the farthest you’ve ever been from home?
- What is the most heartwarming thing you’ve ever seen?
- What is the most annoying question that people ask you?
- What could you give a 40-minute presentation on with absolutely no preparation?
- If you were dictator of a small island nation, what crazy dictator stuff would you do?
- What is something you think everyone should do at least once in their lives?
- Would you rather go hang gliding or whitewater rafting?
- What are you most looking forward to in the next 10 years?
- Where is the most interesting place you’ve been?
- What’s something you’ve been meaning to try but just haven’t gotten around to it?
- What’s the best thing that happened to you last week?
- What piece of entertainment do you wish you could erase from your mind so that you could experience for the first time again?
- If all jobs had the same pay and hours, what job would you like to have?
- What amazing thing did you do that no one was around to see?
- How different was your life one year ago?
- What’s the best way to start the day?
- What quirks do you have?
- Where is the most relaxing place you’ve ever been?
- What is the luckiest thing that has happened to you?
- What are you looking forward to in the coming months?
- What is special about the place you grew up?
- What is the most impressive thing you know how to do?